It’s funny the things you think about when you’re off work and you have the time to think about them. How one decision can, quite conceivably, change your direction. Being on holiday and having time to gather your thoughts can be a good thing, but also a bad thing, I guess (yup, speaking from experience on that one, also).

I had an ‘ex’ stay with me for the weekend (he had a business meeting in Newcastle) two weeks ago and we ended up having some very serious conversations. Why is that men always reveal some ‘revelation’ when it’s too late? You sit there… listening… all the while wanting to scream “Why didn’t you bl**dy tell me this at the time?” In this particular case, had I known, it might not have changed anything but it would’ve been good to hear the truth. Saying that however, the background is that he did something unforgivable and the fact that I still can’t get past it makes me think I made the right decision to end it.

I’m not going to turn this into a rant about men; it’s pointless as well as boring for those not involved. Besides – the best time to have a rant about men is when you have a girlie night with lots of wine and a chick-flick on DVD! The guys in the chick-flicks are always perfect. Sigh, I don’t know, I just wonder why men can’t seem to communicate their feelings until it’s too late – far too late, in some cases.

Hmm…what’s my point? Do I have one? I guess so… I guess the moral of this blog is that some men just can’t communicate until it’s too late.
There’s got to be some perfect men out there – after all, I’ve seen them on TV so surely they do exist? 🙂