{"id":198,"date":"2012-11-20T14:39:53","date_gmt":"2012-11-20T14:39:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.ncl.ac.uk\/lucillevalentine\/?p=198"},"modified":"2012-11-20T14:39:53","modified_gmt":"2012-11-20T14:39:53","slug":"sometimes-i-meet-a-person-who-has-been-looking-for-someone-like-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.ncl.ac.uk\/lucillevalentine\/2012\/11\/20\/sometimes-i-meet-a-person-who-has-been-looking-for-someone-like-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Sometimes I meet a person who has been looking for someone like me."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What they mean is that they have a need for someone who does what I do.\u00a0 In any company \u2013 actually in life in general \u2013 there are moments when one thinks \u2013 I wish there was someone whose job it is to do exactly this.\u00a0 I wish there was a machine that could deliver this precise thing. Where THIS is something that you would love to have done but don\u2019t have the time or inclination to do.<\/p>\n<p>Then I turn up \u2013 and it is my job to do it \u2013 and they are ever so grateful; but it\u2019s not about me.\u00a0 It feels so personal, this great big whump of warmth and appreciation, but really? It\u2019s not about me.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand if life is all about people, and business is all about relationships, then really, it <em>is<\/em> personal.\u00a0 In fact we all know that the warmth is pointless and the gratitude will turn to a sour sort of disappointment if I did not take it personally. But not that sort of personally. \u00a0\u00a0How would I define it?<\/p>\n<p>I make it my responsibility to try and promise what I can deliver and no more than that. I try and be aware of what my remit is, and when I stay within my boundaries I can take it as personally as works for me. Because even though I am a worker, I am also a person. Because even though I am a person, I also work.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What they mean is that they have a need for someone who does what I do.\u00a0 In any company \u2013 actually in life in general \u2013 there are moments when one thinks \u2013 I wish there was someone whose job it is to do exactly this.\u00a0 I wish there was a machine that could deliver &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.ncl.ac.uk\/lucillevalentine\/2012\/11\/20\/sometimes-i-meet-a-person-who-has-been-looking-for-someone-like-me\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Sometimes I meet a person who has been looking for someone like me.<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1089,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-198","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ncl.ac.uk\/lucillevalentine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/198","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ncl.ac.uk\/lucillevalentine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ncl.ac.uk\/lucillevalentine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ncl.ac.uk\/lucillevalentine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1089"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ncl.ac.uk\/lucillevalentine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=198"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ncl.ac.uk\/lucillevalentine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/198\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":199,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ncl.ac.uk\/lucillevalentine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/198\/revisions\/199"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ncl.ac.uk\/lucillevalentine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=198"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ncl.ac.uk\/lucillevalentine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=198"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ncl.ac.uk\/lucillevalentine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=198"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}