more stress

just found out mugger’s courtcase adjourned until January and looks like he got bail with conditions. Fanstastic. He’s failed to appear numerous times in his past criminal history. I am royally &%*@$* off. It must be soul destroying for the police to see this happen. 🙁

Good news: Got a visit from the police just after Xmas – the guy apparently turned up at a homelss shelter in Newcastle on Xmas demanding a bed otherwise he’d do himself in, after kicking up a fuss the police were called and he was arrested…

Bad News: and the ever senile magistrates bailed straight out…to a flat about 3 minutes walk ffrom my front door. My local police came to tell me as a courtesy to warn me that, as his nearest methadone clinic is in the chemist in my street, I’ll probably see him…. 🙁

He’s supposed to appear in court on 6th January. I’m not really hoping for any justice….

stressful time

I was mugged on the way home on Monday.
I had just got of the bus around 17:25 and was about 2 minute walk from home when a man approached me and asked if I “could help him out, and give him 20p for his bus fare” I kept walking, looked him in the eye and politely declined. I was on a well lit pavement though (an albeit overgrown) small square of land, close to shops, main road and 30 seconds from my sister’s house. I passed a young lady walking towards me just a few seconds later. I was right outside my sister’s back garden and the next thing I knew my handbag was wrenched from my arm from behind. I screamed, turned and ran after him shouting at the top of my voice “that man stole my bag, that man stole my bag!” The young lady took up the chase as well and dialled 999. The guy ran into an underpass and I decided it wouldn’t be safe to follow him. Luckily 2 young guys were walking past and chased him. Because I’d made a point of looking at the guy when he initially approached me, I was immediately able to give the police a good description. The young lady he’d passed was also able to describe him – based on his strange behaviour prior to grabbing my bag. He’d crept past her on his tiptoes, with his hands up, scoobie doo baddie style (what an idiot!). The young guys weren’t able to catch him but were able to tell police which direction he was headed. One of the guys ran to my sister’s house and she came out to look after me, with her spare keys run down to mine and get my bank details so I could cancel my cards. Within 10 minutes the police were with me, my bag with them in an evidence bag and the guy in custody. When the young guys had given his direction, the police new exactly where he was headed (a place referred to locally as ‘Dead Man’s Arch’) and were waiting for him! He’d emptied my purse of its cash, took my phone, a bar of chocolate and a pen which were found on him. He’d left my diary, ipod and keys in my bag. When he was apprehended he’s ditched my purse containing my cards and drivers licence. The guy admitted the theft immediately and offered to take police back to the area to look for my purse as he knew exactly where it was. His solicitor advised him not to…… I got my cash, phone and pen back later that night. I made my statement which took some time. Later that evening the police called me and told me his solicitor had agreed he could go and look form my purse. The police told me had 200 prior arrests and lots of failures to appear!! Anyway my purse wasn’t found.

Surprisingly I got a call from a different police station the next morning – an upstanding citizen had picked up my purse and handed it in. I got it back later that day with all of its contents! The only thing not returned was the bar of chocolate!

The Police have been great during this ordeal – apparently the guy has recently been released from prison, had made himself homeless, had many many prior arrests, etc. He was due to appear before the courts on Tuesday – I’m waiting to hear if he was held on remand.

It’s been a pretty stressful and upsetting time but I’m trying hard to take the positives from the situation – that I wasn’t hurt and got all my belonging back, that there are some wonderfully helpful strangers around who will not walk away when they see someone in distress, there are some fundamentally honest people who will not take what isn’t theirs, that the police are actually very good at what they do, and continue to do, regardless of how frustrating and pointless it is to deal with constant re-offenders. Most importantly that I am surrounded by family, friends and colleagues who care about my wellbeing and have my best interests at heart. So thank you to all of you. XXX

Random stuff I accidently bought yesterday

Have you ever been shopping and accidently bought stuff you had no real intention of wanting or even needing?

Yesterday I went shopping for a new bra. I intended to buy a white bra. They didn’t have the style I wanted in my size anywhere in white, or flesh coloured. I tried many more different styles but they just weren’t for me.

On my way to the dressing room, my eye caught the attention of a classic style frock which launched itself into my arms, I figured I was going to the dressing room anyway so I thought, “why not, it’s not like I’m wasting a journey..” by the by (or should that be by the buy) I ended up buying the dress.

In the same shopping spree I also bought:

a blue bra
then
a DS Lite game (involving a trade-in)
then
a lipstick/eyeshadow compact
then
a bottle of shampoo
a set of falsh eye lashes (in blue)
a neon blue eyeliner pencil
a set of falsh nails (short, in french manicure)
then
some mineral powder foundation
some canny expensive facecream
some dead sea mud mask
then
some nail varnishes (blue and silver)

in an unrelated shopping trip this month I also bought:

some canny cheap facecream
a clear birdcage umbrella (with white trim)
a heart shaped glass button
4 round clear buttons
a bunch of haderdashery roses (in mint green
a pair of black crochet ladies gloves
a black bra

It’s a good job I’ve got a credit card…

handbag at dawn

I’m teetering on a knife edge of handbag shopping.

I bought a dress with a band of blue in it, and to maximise the benefits of my dress I will need a matching handbag. The dress is a block jersey, white V top, blue rouched midsection with black skirt. of course I have and “adequate” black clutch, but I’ve seen the same clutch in blue and is almost a perfect match to dress. I don’t own any blue accoutrements….. I may need some shoes. And trinkets.

This means I may fail my July Intentions. Oh well some you win, some you lose!

Spangle the Wundercat = Officially Evil

The ball of mangy fluff aka Spangle the Wundercat had a trip to the Vet yesterday for her annual booster shots.

Normally she is quite pleasant.
Yesterday she was the epitome of derangement, thus =

No. of attempts to get her into a cat transporter = 3
No. of cat transporters switched between because she “wasn’t happy” = 2
No. of times human had to use a lint roller before leaving the house = 3
No. of vets = 1
No. of attempts to remove Spangle from cat transporter = 2
No. of humans taken to remove Spangle from cat transporter = 1
No. of vets taken to remove Spangle form cat transporter = 1
No. of minutes Spangle stroked by vet on his knee = 2
No. of minutes Spangle hissed at vet = 2
No. of bites inflicted by Spangle to said vet = 1
No. of minutes Spangle growled at vet = 1
No. of injections given by vet to Spangle = 1
No. of claws to back of vet’s hands = 10
No. of profuse apologies given by human to vet = 5
No. of attempts to get her back into cat transporter = 3

I would therefore like to brand Spangle as Officially Evil.

Intentions June 2009 – Resounding success

I was actually at home for my Tesco delivery. The driver did not have to call me or return later (only to find me still not in). I didn;t have to call Tesco to re-arrange. I did not miss 8 calls on my mobile or 2 voicemails at home or have to be summoned from the pub. I did not have to call my sister to keep an eye out for the van entering the street so she could go and sort out on my behalf. (although the driver reminded me that this happenend last time)
They even delivered everything I ordered.

Therefore, I am happy to report that my Intentions for June 2009 are a resounding success.

I forgot to order bread and eggs. But no-one’s perfect.